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This is why a lot of queer men (especially DL guys, bi, and "trade") have such an aversion and hesitancy to engage with effeminate men. While they have a certain level of courage and fearlessness for wearing their sexuality so publicly without reticence (and I understand that some are completely unable to hide it, even if they wanted), the flip side is that there is often a lot of indiscretion. In addition, they often have the same disinclination towards being with someone who isn't a "total top". It all boils down as a recipe for DRAMA, often unnecessary and extremely messy.